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Cassy's avatar

I love how clear communication plays such a role in how we manifest our desire. It seems so simple, yet it is so hard for many of us to be open and honest, not only in our relationships, but perhaps more importantly with ourselves.

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Eva Anderberg's avatar

Wow, I love this! I used to be very sexually free and expressive, and very kinky. This was up till I met my beloved husband! We are in the most beautiful, romantic, expansive and deep relationship but we just don't click sexually…but we are very attracted to each other. There is something in the way that we have tried to move beyond but seem unable to break through. Now that I am 65 I have begun to feel how this affects me physically and spiritually, actually on all levels. After listening to this, I booked my husband and myself to see a sex coach to explore if we can move beyond this. So excited and curious to begin a new journey together, however it turns out. Thank you from the depth of my heart, this was god(dess) sent ❤️

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Katya Nova's avatar

That’s such a big bold move, Eva! Celebrating you!!! Please come back and let me know how it goes? And you know, might be cool to book a session with Kati if you’re even is the same area! She’s done incredible work with couples… xx

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Eva Anderberg's avatar

I'll keep you posted for sure and please tell Katie to come to Perth, Western Australia!

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Kati Bird•Shibari Unravelled's avatar

EVAAAA!!!! Congrats on making moves towards cultivating the spark and chasing your desires! YES YES YES! So happy for you!

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Eva Anderberg's avatar

Come to Perth Kati! 🩷

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Gemma Owusu's avatar

Ladies, thank you for assisting me in reconnecting to my pleasure, pain, excitement, wanting, knowing and more. You opened my heart and legs 😉 listening to this and being there live in person. I'm forever grateful to be present on this journey and reactivating my/our Eros ready for 2025 and beyond.

I had smiles listening to all of this.. so good for us to hear and you to share.. sugar scrub 4EVER lol

I love you both ❤️

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Katya Nova's avatar

LOVE YOU WOMAN!!!!! Sugar scrubs 4EVA!!!

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Kati Bird•Shibari Unravelled's avatar

Gemmmma! It was like watching a butterfly come out of the chrysalis. You transformed before our very eyes. I am so grateful that you came along the journey and that we got to share such rich, playful, sensually explorative time together! Keep rewilding! Love you sooo!

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Alibi Smith's avatar

Bring something absurd to the mundane... I love that! ♥️

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Katya Nova's avatar

So simple and so gooooood, right?!

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Amy McGuire's avatar

Loving this first episode 💗 I felt instantly drawn to this title & have always wanted to explore Shabri. Yet knowing the importance of the right person for this, it hasn't yet come into my life. I hadn't even considered it could be a women who holds me. I can't remember when or what part of your conversation, that I felt a weight beginning to release, tears streaming. As I tune into this now, it feels like a deep desire to experience this depth and connection with another and myself. A longing to be witnessed, to play and explore. I'm just about to clean and clear my space as I drop into your second episode - & I will watch the film this evening 💗 Gratitude for your vulnerable sharing, and being witnessed by the many here who feel the power of your transmission and activations.

With Love & Gratitude

Amy McGuire

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Katya Nova's avatar

Oh Amy, THIS!!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for receiving these stories… I hope you experience exactly this magic of shibari (maybe even with Kati, because there’s no one like her!) And when you do, please come back and tell me! I think we need a directory of female shibari artists!

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Jessie's avatar

Thank you for this gorgeous display of authenticity. For showing up vulnerable and unguarded. For crushing shame and offering freedom. Your humanness mess and play seems more accessible. Grateful!

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Katya Nova's avatar

Thank you Jessie love! It’s a glorious mess, for sure!

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Tori's avatar

I love grown woman conversations! 👏🏽

Thank you for sharing ❤️

I like that y’all embody both polarities and enjoy both ends of the spectrum. I have that same glass wand Kati spoke about. My cervix wand is the absolute best!

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Katya Nova's avatar

That cervix wand is my absolute fave too! Great minds think alike :)

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Mama Rose's avatar

Katya, when you opened this conversation by saying this is something you really could have benefited from heating years ago- that it would have felt like a permission slip to explore aspects of yourself that were in hiding- I felt the deep reverence of an answered prayer. I prayed for this, Katya. For you, for every experience you’ve had that lead to this anchoring, thus bravery, this blossoming. I appreciate your dedication to your heart. You know how we are so blessed to have those sisters who take one step ahead of us to show us that it’s safe? You are her for me, right now. Thank you sister ♥️ PS the part about women finding a depth of exploration with each other that truly can only happen with women- literally my own thoughts and voice coming through your body. I was floored. I have SEARCHED for other women who are expressing this perspective, this truth. Yes, I know it in my soul that we are meant to be in communion with each other. This is where we develop the spiritual/sexual power. I’m ready for this chapter in my life and I just truly thank you for offering a reflection of the key- the permission slip.

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Valentina Martinez Mejia's avatar

This episode and the way you have shared about your intimacy has shaken me deeply! So beautiful so moving and I think it has just come at the right time in my life when I feel the need to explore, play and remember this is who I have always been even though it has almost vanished with marriage. I’m thinking here about self loyalty and the wonders of being a woman! Thanks both!!!

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Ashley Marsh's avatar

I was reading this poetry book late last night and immediately thought of you enjoying this ❤️

(Book -“Dirty Pretty Things” by Michael Faudet 😘

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Emily Frost's avatar

So simply beautiful - thank you for your honesty & vulnerability. These stories are gold. Listened with my lover & it was medicine to witness the masculine learning about sxx & romance & eroticism in this way. Bless xx

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Janey's avatar

What beautiful open hearts 💕

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Cecilia's avatar

This episode was on 🔥 I love discovering my kinky side. I'm working with yoni egg at the moment and you are the second person that enfitize how important is to be present and not fantasize about the other person because we are stealing from them, a lot to process and got me thinking what else can I try to play with myself .

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Mariela Cox's avatar

Muchas gracias por esta conversación, se sintió inmensa, fuera del tiempo. Me quedo con la reflexión en torno a la presencia y a mantenerse conectada a la sensaciones del cuerpo para fluir con ellas. Finalmente, en eso consiste la intimidad, en mantenerse muy presente con una misma y si es posible, compartirla con alguien más.

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Kathya's avatar

That was so beautiful so listen to! Thank you!

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Andy's avatar

I love it. I feel erotic & sexual stuff sometimes.

Such a beautiful love testimony for you and Kati. From Shibari student to friend and now beloved. I hope two will be reunited again. You’re such a lovely couple. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

And do I hear a kiss at the end? Listening to this I was hoping proclaiming your love to each other.

Either way I feel so touched.

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